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LICENSED PSYCHOTHERAPIST · TRANSFORMATIONAL COACH

You were never broken.

You've been living inside a distortion.

For 25 years I've supported women to walk out of the rooms that were built to keep them small — and to come home to right relationship with themselves, with others, and with the Earth.

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THE PHILOSOPHY

Right relationship — with yourself, with others, and with the Earth.

Healing is what makes a fuller life possible. The wounds that interfere with your highest potential have to be tended before the reaching can happen. When you heal, you stop replicating intergenerational trauma — in yourself, in your lineage, and in the legacy ahead.

FIRST CIRCLE

With yourself

Self-trust, perception, worth, and the right to want. The wounds that distort these are healed at the source.

THERAPY

SECOND CIRCLE

With others

Partner, family, friends, colleagues. Communication, boundaries, difficult conversations, and repair.

THERAPY REPAIRS · COACHING BUILDS

THIRD CIRCLE

With the Earth

Work, leadership, lineage, the systems you refuse to pass on — and the life that is finally yours.

COACHING

TWO WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

Therapy heals what's in the way. Coaching builds what comes next.

COACHING · SACRED LIVING, LLC

Sacred Repatterning™

High-touch private coaching for women ready to move beyond survival and reclaim a sovereign, self-led life. We rewire the inherited patterns that keep you small and reunite the wisdom of your mind, body, and spirit.

  • Private one-to-one containers and group experiences

  • Not limited by diagnosis or state lines — clients worldwide

  • Psychology, spirituality, Ancestral wisdom, and systems awareness

THERAPY · PRIVATE PRACTICE

Holistic Therapy

A private psychotherapy practice for when you’re ready to leave behind what isn’t healthy and come home to yourself — with clinical depth beyond talk therapy, which may include hypnotherapy and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy.

  • Licensed psychotherapist and clinical hypnotherapist, 25+ years of clinical experience

  • Licensed in New York

  • Limited availability · private pay

Not sure which? The consultation call begins with one question: is something hurting, or are you ready for more?

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MY APPROACH

I walked out of the rooms first.

I grew up watching my stepfather control my mother, and as a child I promised myself I would never live in that kind of relationship. By 22 I was helping women leave domestic violence and narcissistic abuse — and I kept my promise. But I kept choosing emotionally unavailable men, the same man in a different body, until I healed the father wound underneath.

 

What freed me wasn't a relationship skill. It was seeing that the wound was never only mine. It was handed to me by systems — patriarchal, colonial, narcissistic in their very design — that profit from a woman's self-doubt. What was handed to you can be given back.

 

My work braids three things that freed me: the clinical, the sacred, and the body. Mind, spirit, body — in that order, because that's how it moves.

WHAT THE WORK BUILDS

Love arrived while I was living, not looking. 

When I healed the wound underneath, I stopped choosing the familiar. I knew what I desired and would not settle for less — and the partnership I’d longed for found me.

Read the full story

Heal the core wounds, and you choose clearly.

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AS FEATURED IN

USA Today  ·  New York Magazine  ·  Cosmopolitan  ·  NBC  ·  Columbia University  ·  Woman's Day

IN HER WORDS

“Attracting what we want is entirely in our capacity, but we are often so clouded by fear and past conditioning that we overlook solutions, and do not take chances. Cynthia really removes those barriers.”

— NOELIA DE LA CRUZ

Cynthia Santiago-Borbón​

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Licensed psychotherapist and transformational coach. Founder of Sacred Living, LLC. Serving women worldwide.

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